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Happy Chinese New Year

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I want to dedicated happy Chinese New year to my friends -> Weipin and family, Alex,Goh,Apple Ching, Sany Liew and all people that celebrate the CNY

 

Credit Pics to above author

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Wait for the arrival of new post

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"Teddy" came from??????

Posted by Shahmi in Fact

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Have you ever wondered why the Teddy Bear was called so? I have always wanted to know the origin of the name, especially since there is not such bear called Teddy Bear in the animal kingdom. I finally found out the origin of the name:

The Teddy Bear is named after the former US Prez. Theodore Roosevelt, whose nickname was "Teddy" and who enjoyed big game-hunting. The name is said to come from an incident on a bear-hunting trip in Mississippi in 1902, when Roosevelt's attendants found and caught a juvenile Louisiana Black Bear. Roosevelt refused to kill the lassoed animal, calling it "unsportsmanlike", and "Teddy's Bear" was immediately publicized by political cartoonists.

So thats how Teddy bears came into being. So girls, when you are hugging onto your cute cuddly Teddy bear, its actually Theodore Roosevelt whom you are hugging! So watchout gals! His ghost might give a hug back to you - You never know!! :)

Article taken from :
http://cutebrain.blogspot.com/2005/11/origin-of-teddy-in-teddy-bear.html

80 Ways to Say “Hello”

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Increase your vocabulary with 80 different ways to say “hello”. Each way is listed with the language and what country uses it.

English - America, Australia, UK - Hello
Afrikaans - South Africa - Goeie More
Albanian - Albania - Tungjatjeta
Arabic - N. Africa, Middle East - Marhaba
Armenian - Armenia - Barevdzes
Azerbaijani - Azerbaijan, Iran - Salaam aleihum
Basque - Spain - Kaixo
Belarussian - Belarussia - Dobri Dzen
Bengali - India - Namoshkar
Bulgarian - Bulgaria - Zdravei
Burmese - Burma (Myanmar) - Min ga la baa
Cantonese - China - Nei ho
Cambodian (Khmer) - Cambodia - Joom reab suor
Catalan - Spain - Hola
Cherokee - N. America - O’siyo
Chichewa - Malawi - Moni
Chinese (Cantonese) - China - Nei hou ma
Chinese (Mandarin) - China - Ni hao
Croatian - Croatia, Bosnia - Bok
Czech - Czech Republic - Ahoj
Danish - Denmark, Greenland - Goddag, Hejsa
Dhivehi (Maldives) - As’salaam Alaikum
Dutch - Netherlands - Hallo, Goeiendag
English - Australia - G’day
Esperanto - Worldwide - Saluton
Estonian - Estonia - Tere
Farsi - Persia - Salaam
Filipino - Philippines - Mabuhay
Finnish - Finland - Heippa, Moi
French - France - Bonjour
Georgian - Georgia - Gamarjobat
German - Germany - Guten tag
Greek - Greece - Geia sou
Hawaiian - Hawaii - Aloha
Hebrew - Israel - Shalom, Ma nishma
Hindi - India - Namaste
Hmong - Laos, Thailand - Nyob zoo
Hungarian - Hungary - Sziasztok
Indonesian - Indonesia - Salam, Apa kabar
Inuit - Canada - Kutaa
Irish Gaelic - Ireland - Dia duit
Italian - Italy - Ciao
Japanese - Japan - Konnichiwa, Ohayo
Korean - Korea - Ahnyong
Lahu - Thailand, Burma - Cheh shala
Lao - Laos - Sa bai dii
Latin - Vatican City - Salve
Latvian - Latvia - Vasali
Lisu - Thailand, Burma - Ali nga
Lithuanian - Lithuania - Labas
Luxembourgish - Luxembourg - Moien
Macedonian - Macedonia - Zdravo
Malagasy - Madagascar - Manao ahoana
Malay - Malaysia - Apa khabar
Malayalam - India - Namaskaram
Marathi - Namaskar Mohawk - N. America - Kwe
Mandinka - W. Africa - Kayira be
Maori - New Zealand - Kiaora
Mongolian - Mongolia - Sain bainu
Náhuatl (Aztec) - ¡Niltze!
Nepali - Nepal - Namaste
Norwegian - Norway - Hallo
Ojibwe - Aanii
Pao - Thailand, Burma - Na aw hsaw ha
Papiamento - Aruba, Curacao, Bonaire - Con ta bai
Pidgin english - Papua New Guinea - Gude
Polish - Poland - Dzien dobry
Portuguese - Portugal, Brazil - Ola
Punjabi - Punjab, India - Sat Sri Akal
Romanian - Romania - Salut
Russian - Russia - Privet
Saad (Navajo) - N. America - Ya at’ eeh
Samoan - Samoan Islands - Talofa
Serbian - Serbia - Zdravo
Setswana - Botswana - dumela mma (to female)
Setswana - Botswana - dumela rra (to male)
Shona - Mhoro (singular) Sioux - Hau
Slovenian - Slovenia - Zdravo, Zivjo
Spanish - S. and C. America, Spain - Hola
Swahili - Africa - Jambo
Swedish - Sweden - Hej
Tagalog - Philippines - Oy
Tamil - India - Vanakkam, Nalama
Thai - Thailand - Sawadee krap (to female)
Thai - Thailand - Sawadee ka (to male)
Turkish - Turkey - Merhaba
Ukrainian - Ukraine - Privit, Dobri den
Urdu - Pakistan - Asalam alaykum
Vietnamese - Vietnam - Chao
Welsh - Wales - Dydd da
Xhosa - South Africa - Molo
Zulu - South Africa - Moeo, Sawubona

Source from http://p3k.p3kn.net/?page_id=34

The Most Secured BF / Husband For Girls

Posted by Shahmi in Life, Love

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Pick Engineer as your boyfriend (husband perhaps) becoz:

Advantage 1: Secure lifestyle

An engineer boyfriend can provide you with a secure lifestyle. At 27 years old, an engineer probably has a respectable, stable job that gives him a high income to own a car, invest, have a comfortable life, and get married and buy a house too. Law graduates are still working as a lowly apprentice in law firm, most management graduates have just failed on their first business plan, the arts graduate is still looking for a job, and the medical school graduate is still living in a hospital.

Advantage 2: Unmatchable industriousness

An engineer boyfriend will dedicate an unimaginable amount of his time and effort to understand you. Engineers strain really really hard to understand their work. You can believe that they will try really really hard to understand women too, just like how they understand their work, once they believe that you are the one. So even if they don't understand you initially, they will keep on trying. Even if they still do not understand, they will figure out the correct method to keep you happy (e.g. buy diamond ring = 1 week's worth of happiness.) And once they find out the secret formula, they will just keep on repeating it so that the desired results appear.
Unlike the Lawyer who will argue with you, the Management graduate who will try to control your spending, the Arts graduate who will 'change major', and the medical school graduate who will operate on you. And you know what, it's really so easy to make engineers believe that you are the 'one'. Say that you like one of their projects and they will be hooked to you forever.

Advantage 3: Trusted

An engineer boyfriend will never betray your trust. Let me first tell you what is wrong with the rest of the others - the lawyers will lie about everything, management graduates will cheat your money, the arts graduate will flirt, and you probably just look like another cadaver to the medical school graduate. Your engineer boyfriend is either too busy to have an affair, and even if he does, he is too dumb to lie to you about that.

Hence, an engineer is the most secure boyfriend that you will ever find rich enough, will keep on trying to understand and please you, has no time for affairs, and too dumb to lie to you. So girls, why procrastinate? Get an engineer for your boyfriend!!

Credit to : Hafizi01

~Appreciation and depreciation~

Posted by Shahmi in Fact, laughter, Life

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A young and pretty lady posted this on a popular forum.

Title: What should I do to marry a rich guy?

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York. My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden (?), $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty



Here's a reply from a Wall Street Financial guy:

Dear Ms. Pretty, I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here. From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you.

The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term – same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased". Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you.

I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps. If you are interested in "leasing" services, do contact me signed, J.P. Morgan


Credit to : Al-Bert @ http://www.recom.org/forum/

Infatuation vs. Love, Which one do u feel?

Posted by Shahmi in Life, Love, Opinion

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Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away. Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying. But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning.
The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for....

credit to Ashlee

If You Love Someone...

Posted by Shahmi in Life, Love, Speak By Us

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THE ORIGINAL QUOTE

If you love someone,
Set her free...
If she comes back, she's yours,
If she doesn't, she never was.....

THE NEW VERSIONS R.....

Pessimist:

If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she ever comes back, she's yours,
If she doesn't, as expected, she never was


Optimist:

If you love someone,
Set her free ...
Don't worry, she will come back.

Suspicious:

If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she ever comes back, ask her why.

Impatient:

If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she doesn't come back within some time forget her.

Patient:

If you love someone, Set her free ...
If she doesn't come back,
continue to wait until she comes back ...

Playful:

If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she comes back, and if you love her still,
set her free again, repeat ....

C++ Programmer:

if(you-love( m_she))
m_she.free()
if(m_she == NULL)
m_she = new CShe;

Animal-Rights Activist:

If you love someone,
Set her free,
In fact, all living creatures deserve to be free!!

Lawyers:

If you love someone,
Set her free,
Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the Second
Amendment of the Matrimonial Freedom

Biologist :

If you love someone,
Set her free,
She'll evolve.

Statisticians :

If you love someone,
Set her free,
If she loves you, the probability of her coming
back is high
If she doesn't, your relation was improbable
anyway.

Schwarzenegger' s fans:

If you love someone,
Set her free,
SHE'LL BE BACK!

Over possessive person :

If you love someone
don't set her free.

MBA :

If you love someone set her free instantaneously
and look for others simultaneously

Psychologist :

If you love someone
set her free
If she comes back her super ego is dominant
If she doesn't come back her id is supreme
If she doesn't go, she must be crazy.

Somnabulist :

If you love someone
set her free
If she comes back it's a nightmare
If she doesn't, you must be dreaming.

ERP functional expert :

If you love someone
set her free
If she comes back, map her into your system
If she doesn't, carry out a gap-fit analysis

Finance expert :

If you love someone
set her free
If she comes back, its time to look for fresh loans
If she doesn't, write her off as an asset gone bad.

Marketing Specialist :

If you love someone
set her free
If she comes back she has brand loyalty
If she doesn't, reposition the brand in new market

credit to poreh@ aibob

Will You Grow Together??? - By Ethan Cole

Posted by Shahmi in Life, Love

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In today's age for a couple to think of growing old together seems, sadly, a bit foreign. The rate at which divorces are taking place and couples separate, it is a difficult task. This was not so, only two three decades ago. The changing norms have taken a big toll on the relationships. How about you? Do you believe that you will grow together till old age?
The determination that we would not separate may play a big role. Once you have decided the goal - no separating, you will act towards achieving that goal. Please make this bond with your partner that you will not separate. I wish to add something here. When things are going smoothly, all such promises sound very good. As soon as a crack appears, the same looks very difficult. The need is to take care when the cracks appear.

Why do the cracks appear? Miscommunication, discords, different views on very important matters, career problems, health problems, third person entering the relationship, and many other factors can play role in this. As time passes, distances may grow. The reverse also happens. But now days it seems that the earlier case occurs more often.
Do you want to grow together till old age? Are you sure that your choice of partner is perfect for you? Is your partner also sure? Both of you have considered every factor? If there are any complaints, you are ready to sort them out? Do you keep the communication open? Do you love each other? What about caring? Please consider all these and draw a plan so that separation becomes a very difficult possibility.

Taken from : http://www.interestingarticles.net/relationships/Will%20You%20Grow%20Old%20Together.asp

Chill A While!!

Posted by Shahmi in quiz

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How many can you get right?!! The last one's great....


1.

man
------
board


Ans. = man overboard





Okay, let's see if you've got the hang of it.

2.

stand
------
i


Ans. = I understand




OK.... Got the drift? Let's try a few now and see how you fare?




3.


/r/e/a/d/i/n/g/



Ans. = reading between the lines

4.

r
road
a
d


Ans. = cross road




Not having a good day now, are you?
Redeem yourself.

5.

cycle
cycle
cycle


Ans. = tricycle






Not easy to figure out ha!

6.

0
-------
M.D.
Ph.D.



Ans.. = two degrees below zero







C'mon give it a little thought!!



7.


knee
------------
light


Ans. = neon light
(knee-on-light)






U can prove u r smart by getting this one.


8.



ground
---------------
feet feet feet feet feet feet


Ans. = six feet underground


Oh no, not again!!





9.

he's X himself


Ans. = he's by himself





Now u messing up big time.



10.


ecnalg

Ans. = backward glance






Not even close!!


11.


death . life


Ans. = life after death





Okay .......



12.


THINK


Ans. = think big!!





And the last one is............



13.

ababaaabbbbaaaabbbbababaabbaaabbbb....

Ans. = long time no 'C' (see)

::Fact that You Don't Know::

Posted by Shahmi in Fact, Knowledge

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1. Coca-Cola was originally green.

2 the most common name in the world is Mohammed.

3 . The name of all the continents ends with the same letter that they start with.

4 . The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.

5. There are two credit cards for every person in the United States.

6. TYPEWRITER is the longest word that can be made using the letters only on one row of the keyboard.

7. Women blink nearly twice as much as men!!

8. You can't kill yourself by holding your breath .

9. It is impossible to lick your elbow.

10. People say "Bless you" when you sneeze because when you Sneeze, your heart stops for a millisecond.

11 . It is physically impossible for pigs to look up into the sky.

12 . The "sixth sick sheik's sixth sheep's sick" is said to be the toughest tongue twister in the English language.

13. If you sneeze too hard, you can fracture a rib. If you try to Suppress a sneeze; you can rupture a blood vessel in your head or neck and die.

14 . Each king in a deck of playing cards represents great king from History. "Spades" - King David; "Clubs" - Alexander the Great; " Hearts" - Charlemagne; "Diamonds" - Julius Caesar.

15.11 x 11=121111 x111=123211111x1111=123432111111x11111= 123454321111111x111111= 123456543211111111x1111111= 1234567654321 111111111x111111111 =123456787654321111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987, 654,321

16. If a statue of a person in the park on a horse has both front legs in the air, the person died in battle. If the horse has one front leg in the air, the person died as a result of wounds received in battle. If the horse has a all four legs on the ground, the person died of natural causes.

17 What do bullet proof vests, fire escapes, windshield wipers and laser printers all have in common? Ans. - All invented by women.

18. Honey - This is the only food that doesn't spoil.

19. A crocodile cannot stick its tongue out.

20. A snail can sleep for three years.

21. All polar bears are left handed.2

22. American Airlines saved $40,000 in 1987 by eliminating one olive from each salad served in first-class.

23 . Butterflies taste with their feet.

24 Elephants are the only animals that can't jump.

25 . In the last 4000 years, no new animals have been domesticated.

26 . On average, people fear spiders more than they do death.

27 . Shakespeare invented the word 'assassination' and 'bump'.

28. Stewardesses is the longest word typed with only the left hand.

29. The ant always falls over on its right side when intoxicated.

30. The electric chair was invented by a dentist.

31 . The human heart creates enough pressure when it pumps out to the body to squirt blood 30 feet.

32 Rats multiply so quickly that in 18 months, two rats could have over million descendants.

33. Wearing headphones for just an hour will increase the bacteria in your ear by 700 times.

34. The cigarette lighter was invented before the match.

35. Most lipstick contains fish scales.

36 . Like fingerprints, everyone's tongue print is different

37. And finally 99% of people who read this will try to lick their elbow.

Knowledge is to be shared & enjoyed

~Tag Games~

Posted by OrdinaryPeoPle in Games

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Rules:
1. The rules of the game get posted at the beginning
2. Each player answers the questions about themselves
3. At the end of the post the player then tags 5 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves a comment, letting them know they got tagged and to ask them to play and read your blog

Starting time: 10:45pm
Name: Thelma (due to security awareness..real name need to be hide)
Sisters: 0
Brothers: 1
Shoe size: 7 @38 depends on the brands
Height: 160cm
Where do you live: Jay Bee~my hometown
Favourite drinks: watermelon smoothies juice i guess ;)
Favourite breakfast: i just whack anything that mom prepared


Have you ever
Been on a plane: yup..for 20 times if i am not mistaken
Swam in the ocean: i can't swim..one of my weaknesses
Fallen asleep at school: yah..especially during my Arab language class..;)
Broken someone's heart: many times..coz i also suffered for many times too..(an eye for an eye)
Fell off your chair: so long as i remembered..never fall off my chair.. =)
Sat by the phone all night waiting for someone to call: nop..coz i don't like to wait..my time is very precious..hehe
Saved e-mails: yah i do
What is your room like: clean & tidy..full with handbags..shoes..dress..cosmetics.
What's right beside you: my hp which is crazy right now and my MP4
What is the last thing you ate: chocolate


Ever had
Chicken pox: yah..when i was in standard 2
Sore throat: many times
Stitches: nope..
Broken nose: nope..

Do you
Believe in love at first sight: perhaps
Like picnics: yah!!!

Who was the last person
You danced with: never dance before..i missed my prom night.sob sob..
Made you smile: urgh..couldn't recall
You last yelled at: an idiot at the Puduraya~long story


Today did you
Talk to someone you like: nop..
Kissed anyone: yah! kissed mommy
Get sick: a bit..
Talk to an ex: forget it!
Miss someone: yah!!
Eat: obviously yes!breakfast + lunch +dinner


Best feeling in the world
Do you sleep with stuffed animals: nope
What's under your bed: nothing
Who do you really hate: prevaricator ; hypocrite
What time is it now: 11.35pm


Random
Is there a person who is on your mind now: yup! ;)
Do you have any siblings: yup
Do you want children: yah..i do
Do you smile often: may be =)
Do you like your hand-writing: nope..only God can read it!!
Are your toe nails painted: yah..with henna ;)
Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in: it is secret!
What color shirt are you wearing now: black
What were you doing at 7:00 p.m. yesterday: watching drama series~Ezora..hoho...
When did you cry last: last week =((
Are you a friendly person: sometimes..hehe
Do you have any pets: nope..
Where is the person you have feelings for right now: err..i don't know
Did you hold hands with the person who mean anything to you now: nope
Do you sleep with the TV on: nope..
What are you doing right now: chatting with a friend..n yah..doing this tagged games
Have you ever crawled through a window:lol..i don't think so
Can you handle the truth: yup for sure..tho it is hard
Are you too forgiving: nop..it's not my nature
Are you closer to your mother or father: both
Who was the last person you cried in front of: can't reveal his name..hehe
How many people can you say you've really loved: lots..can't say the exact numbers
Do you eat healthy: yah!..to be 'awet muda' lol
Do you still have pictures of you & your ex: i burnt it long time ago
Have you ever cried because of something someone said to you: yeah! n i can't forget that moment for my entire life
If you're having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to:my best buddy..
Are you loud or quiet most of the time: loud ;)
Are you confident: sometimes..but most of the times i am not

5 things I was doing 10 years ago
1. study like sh*t for my UPSR exams
2. involving in PBSM (Persatuan Bulan Sabit Merah)
3. an active member of Taekwondo club..holder of blue-red belt
4. a debator..
5. flirting ;)


5 things on my to-do list today
1. set up my crazy phone
2. cleaning my room
3. writing my diary
4. reading OK magazine
5. upload pix


5 snacks I enjoy
1. chocolate..any kind will do
2. ice cream..nyum nyum..
3. secret recipe's cake..gosh!!
4.cheezy wedges
5. potato chips~

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire
1. performing my 'Umrah n Haji' frequently
2. travel around the world
3. shopping
4. build my own foundation of charity
5.invest my money to every industries in the world..

5 of my bad habits
1. bad temper
2. not punctual
3. lazy
4. always curst persons i hate most
5. easily get demotivated or not confident

5 places I have lived in
1. i'm staying in the same place since i was a kid-the nice n peaceful jay bee
2. -
3. -
4. -
5. -

5 jobs I've had
1. did my practical at Zaid Ibrahim & Associates (JB)..
2. -
3. -
4. -
5. -

5 people I tag
~Xu Yan
~edwin
~rishi
~ -
~ -

Single & Happy!!

Posted by Shahmi in Happy, Life, Single, Student's Life

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Happiness and the Single Person; Changing Myth Into Reality
By Toni Coleman

Does the expression “single and happy” sound like an oxymoron to you? Are you weary of others (especially other singles) reinforcing the belief that singles cannot be happy? Do you find yourself always planning for the future or putting things off until you “are married and settled? Do you often have a sense that the intense feelings of happiness and joy cannot really be experienced unless you “have someone to share it with?” Do you just feel there is not enough time and other necessary resources available to the single person to pursue experiences that can bring true happiness?

If the above resonates in your gut, do not despair. The following tips will offer ways to help you experience your present reality differently through changing behavior that is based on those negative (false) beliefs. Essentially, these tips will offer advice on how to live a joyful, fulfilling and balanced single life, which will also assist you in achieving a healthy, long- term, intimate relationship.

· Seek self-fulfillment as an individual.

Place emphasis on being truly alive and experiencing the things that bring you true pleasure. Do not let the feelings of peace and wonder slip from your life as you wait to share (beautiful sunsets) and other gifts of life with a future partner.

Do not place your focus on “getting there.” Instead, learn to experience the journey of life. If you can only see the goal of a relationship - marriage, home, children, etc., you will not enjoy the experiences along life’s way.

A good analogy for this is that of a person who bikes and sets (ie), a 40-mile goal for the day. They plan and prepare and off they go. The trip consists of thoughts about getting there, watching for problems in the road ahead, measuring the distance and looking forward to the sense of relief and accomplishment when the goal is met.

What about the sensory experiences missed along the way? This biker will not see the way the sun is reflecting on the river. They will not hear the sounds of the birds and other wildlife in the parallel world around them. The smells of fresh vegetation, moist soil and spring-drenched air will not reach their awareness. It is doubtful their mind will trip and play with thoughts of other (perhaps childhood) days like this.

In other words, they will not be IN the experience, just racing through it, and missing the magic available all around them.

· Do not put off important life decisions while waiting for that special someone.

If your desire is to own your own home, work towards achieving this now. Yes, it may be smaller than if you had a partner to share it with. Your list of must-haves with this first home may be different (as yours alone) than they would be if you were looking for a family. When that time comes, you can make the decision to remain there for a time, or sell/rent out your first place. In the meantime, you will have an investment that you can make into something that meets your needs now for comfortable and secure living. It will add stability and be a wonderful help at tax time.

If you are thinking about making a career change or going back to school for a degree, there is no better time than now.

Yes, this may involve re-working priorities, moving, giving up some income, etc. If this is something you have decided you want for your life, delaying it until you are settled in a relationship may make it impossible to achieve. Make that move now. Do not let this time in your life be placed on hold as you wait for things to happen in your life, instead of working to make them become reality.

· Pamper yourself

Do nice things for yourself now that you have been putting off until…

Go ahead and take that trip to the exotic place you have always wanted to visit. You can return there someday with your special someone.

Make it a habit to set the table for your dinner (for one). Use nice china and candles. Treat yourself as deserving of the things couples routinely provide to themselves as a unit. Ask yourself, am I less deserving because I am single?

Put care and love into how you decorate your home. It does not have to cost a lot of money or become another chore to accomplish this. Make it a comfortable nest and retreat from the world. You and your future mate can decide together what to keep, change or add to.

* Make a plan, not excuses

Make time for the things that matter. Do not let your job or other responsibilities take over your life. Set those priorities. Set limits on work and other functional tasks. We often cite work as our best excuse for not attending to our other needs and wants. This may mean making less money or not moving up as fast in the organization.

Without balance, there will be deficits in the emotional, spiritual, and social and leisure areas of your life. Write down your must haves.

Take time out each day for unwinding and relaxation. Keep a weekly inventory of how you are doing and make adjustments as necessary.

Learn how to productively “waste time”. Turn off the blackberry and TV. Spend time alone with your thoughts. Reflect on your feelings and your life.

This is the season for new beginnings. Let this spring be your time for learning how to be truly happy and at peace within yourself. Immerse your senses in the many joys that the world around you has to offer. Don’t shut out the beauty and happiness that is available to everyone, regardless of their relationship status.

Credit to : http://www.studentnow.com/life/singlehappy.html

Forgiving People

Posted by Shahmi in Forgiving people, Life, people

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FORGIVING PEOPLE

Where do we get the idea that if WE don't forgive people, THEY suffer?
It's nuts!

Let's say:
a) You are my boss and you give me the sack, or
b) You are my girl and you run off with my best friend.

So I say, "I'll NEVER forgive you!"
Who suffers?

NOT YOU!
I get the knot in my stomach.
I lose the sleep.
You are probably out partying!

While I resent you, I SUFFER!
Meanwhile I tell myself, "I'm right!"
But being "RIGHT" doesn't guarantee happiness.

Here's the point ...
To forgive someone, you don't have to AGREE with what they did.
You just have to want your life to work.

You don't forgive people for THEIR benefit.
You do it for YOUR benefit.

So this is your mission for the next 24 hours:

Think of someone that has hurt you.
Just today, practise letting go of all resentment toward them.

Gather all your ANGRY thoughts -
those "I am right and they are wrong" thoughts,
and let them go.

You may like to use your creative imagination ...
.. put all that resentment into an imaginary balloon,
and let it float away.

Throughout the day, repeat the process.
You will feel better.

Forgiving people may be tough, but is possible.
You forgive people for YOUR benefit.
It makes YOU happier.

Best wishes,

Andrew Matthews.

Andrew Matthews is a bestselling author and international corporate speaker. His books are published in 31 languages.

credits to http://jieismail.blogspot.com/

Ah Beng And His Joke

Posted by Shahmi in funny, jokes

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I was just ended my 1st test.Just wanna rest for a while , i found jokes in the forum.

Wanna share coz it is funny...

Enjoys guys


Ah Beng - NEW STUFF
********************

Ah Beng bought a new mobile.
He sent a message to everyone from his Phone Book & said,
"My Mobile No. Has changed.
Earlier it was Nokia 3310. Now it is 6610"

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Ah Beng : I am a Proud, coz my son is in Medical College.
Friend: Really, what is he studying.
Ah Beng: No, he is not studying, they are Studying him.

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Ah Beng : Doctor, in my dreams, I play football every night.
DR: Take this tablet, you will be ok.
Ah Beng : Can I take tomorrow, tonight is final game.

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Ah Beng : If I die, will u remarry?
Wife: No! I'll stay with my sister. But if I die will u remarry?
Ah Beng : No, I'll also stay with your sister.

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Ah Beng : People consider me as a "GOD"
Wife: How do you know??
Ah Beng : When I went to the Park today, everybody said,
Oh GOD! U have come again.

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Ah Beng complained to the police: "Sir, all items are missing,
except the TV in my house."
Police: "How the thief did not take TV?"
Ah Beng : "I was watching TV news..."

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Ah Beng comes back 2 his car & find a note saying "Parking Fine"
He Writes a note and sticks it to a pole "Thanks for complement."

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How do you recognize Ah Beng in School?
He is the one who erases the notes from the book when the teacher erases
the board.

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Once Ah Beng was walking he had a glove on one hand and not on other.
So the man asked him why he did so. He replied that the weather forecast
announced that on one hand it would be cold and on the other hand it would
be hot.

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Ah Beng in a bar and his cellular phone rings. He picks it up and
Says "Hello, how did you know I was here?"

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Ah Beng : Why are all these people running?
Man - This is a race, the winner will get the cup
Ah Beng - If only the winner will get the cup, why others running?

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Teacher: "I killed a person" convert this sentence into future tense
Ah Beng : The future tense is "u will go to jail"

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Ah Beng told his servant: "Go and water the plants!"
Servant: "It's already raining."
Ah Beng : "So what? Take an umbrella and go."

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A man asked Ah Beng why Ahmad Badawi goes walking in the Evening and not
in the morning Ah Beng replied Ahmad Badawi is PM not AM


credit to : SoulKnight

::She Walks In Beauty::

Posted by Shahmi in beauty, poem, She Walks In Beauty

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Salam and hye everyone.

Whew...too busy lately last week and this week.Everything need to be settle in short time and it was like "Do i have to do this things?"

Well ,using an ample of time , just fill this free time , update the blog. Currently it is like poem matters.I'm being an literature person.

This poem i took during my journey to KL from Serdang inside STAR LRT. This poem is put at the advertisement slot inside the LRT.So , waiting for my next destination ,why don't i save this poem and keep it for future reference.
I use my hp and save it in message folder.Quite hard to save all of it coz the poem is so long and my msg space is limited.I had to delete certain msg in my hp to be able save the poem.

Then,this is the result.Enjoy again this poem.

Dedicated to the beauty of Girls outside there... (^_^)



SHE WALKS IN BEAUTY

She walks in beauty,
like the night,
of cloudless climes and starry skies;
and all that's best of dark and bright
meet in her aspect and her ages;
Thus mellowed to that tender light,
Whick heaven to gaudy day deries

One shade the more , one ray the less,
Had half impaired the nameless grace
which waves in every raxon tress,
where thoughts serenely sweet express,
How pure , how dear their dwelling-place

And on that cheek , and o'er that brow,
So soft , so calm , yet elopuent,
The smiles that win , the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent

::StarZ Of Your Life::

Posted by Shahmi in Life, poem, Stars, starz of your life

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Just share a poem that i took from a website which i didn't remember. It was a long time ago....

I like this poem very much because it have lots of moral value of life.
It will show how the life is going on....we feel it and we see it by our own eyes.
Someday probably.....




"Stars are made for wishing on"
My very best friend told me
So I gazed upon an October night's sky
And I picked the brightest star I could see

I named my star Karen
A very special name
Now that this star had a title
She was all mine to claim

I thought about what I wanted
Something that I could wish for
But as I thought about my wish I realized
Into this process should go much more

Karen should know my thoughts
Behind each and every wish
So before I made my wish that night
I told to Karen this

I could wish for money
Because my family is very poor
However to be rich, money is not a necessity
A person needs so very much more

I could wish for that special "GuRL" to like me
And say those three little precious words
But love is a much more sacred link
That comes on a path with thousands of curves

I could wish to be famous
To be someone other than myself
But self worth is measured by much more than
Having the most trophies on your shelf

Instead I want to be rich in spirit
Sound in soul and mind
I wish that when I see the pot at the end of the rainbow
Character is what I will find

Instead I wish for understanding
And courage in matters of love
I pray I'll meet the special someone
And through tough times we will rise above

Most of all I wish for the ability to know and like
Who I am and what I have become to be
And I ask that you help me realize
That I am special even if that's not what I always see

I thanked Karen for listening to
My wishes and my dreams
And there she is shinning bright
No matter how dark it seems

Karen listens to all I say
Even though she live in a world so far
But no matter where either of us end up living
She will always be my wishing star

Friend VS Bestfriend

Posted by Shahmi in friend, friend Vs Bestfriend, friendship

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A friend has never seen you cry.
A best friend has shoulders soggy with your tears.

A friend doesn't know your parents's first names.
A best friend has their phone numbers in her cell.

A friend brings the vodka and orange juice to your party.
A best friend helps you clean the house afterwards.

A friend gets annoyed when you call after she's has gone to bed.
A best friend asks you why you took so damn long to call.

A friend comes to you to tell you her problems.
A best friends comes to you to listen to your problems.

A friend wonders about your romantic history.
A best friend could blackmail you with it.

A friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A best friend opens your refrigerator and helps herself.

A friend thinks the friendship is over when you have an argument.
A best friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight.

A friend expects you to always be there for them.
A best friend expects to always be there for you.

A friend gets your boyfriend and his friends to come over to your house.
A best friend helps you hide them in a closet when your mom comes home.


**Credits to CuteQuotesCrazyStuff@groups.msn.com /
http://groups.msn.com/CuteQuotesCrazyStuff/friendsvsbestfreinds.msnw

I'm Yours

Posted by Shahmi in I'm Yours, Jason Mraz, lyrics, Song

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Salam semua. It is a long time since i haven't post any material for this blogs.It mean that we are busy.

Just for a relax time, i would like to share a nice song to all of you.

Enjoy the lyric :




Jason Mraz - I'm Yours

Well, you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but your so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks, now I'm tryin to get back
before the cool done run out I'll be givin it my best test
and nothin's gonna stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

But I won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait
I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family
And it's our godforsaken right to be loved loved loved loved loved

So, i won't hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait i'm sure
there's no need to complicate our time is short
this is our fate
I'm yours

*scat*

I've been spendin' way too long checkin' my tongue in the mirror
and bendin' over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
and so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I'd be sayin' is there ain't no better reason
to rid yourself of vanities and just go with the seasons
it's what we aim to do
our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more,
no more it cannot wait
I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you're free
look into your heart and you will find that the sky is yours

so please don't, please don't, please don't,
there's no need to complicate,
Cause our time is short
This, this, this is our fate,
I'm yours

*scat*