~Tag Games~

Posted by OrdinaryPeoPle in Games

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Rules:
1. The rules of the game get posted at the beginning
2. Each player answers the questions about themselves
3. At the end of the post the player then tags 5 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves a comment, letting them know they got tagged and to ask them to play and read your blog

Starting time: 10:45pm
Name: Thelma (due to security awareness..real name need to be hide)
Sisters: 0
Brothers: 1
Shoe size: 7 @38 depends on the brands
Height: 160cm
Where do you live: Jay Bee~my hometown
Favourite drinks: watermelon smoothies juice i guess ;)
Favourite breakfast: i just whack anything that mom prepared


Have you ever
Been on a plane: yup..for 20 times if i am not mistaken
Swam in the ocean: i can't swim..one of my weaknesses
Fallen asleep at school: yah..especially during my Arab language class..;)
Broken someone's heart: many times..coz i also suffered for many times too..(an eye for an eye)
Fell off your chair: so long as i remembered..never fall off my chair.. =)
Sat by the phone all night waiting for someone to call: nop..coz i don't like to wait..my time is very precious..hehe
Saved e-mails: yah i do
What is your room like: clean & tidy..full with handbags..shoes..dress..cosmetics.
What's right beside you: my hp which is crazy right now and my MP4
What is the last thing you ate: chocolate


Ever had
Chicken pox: yah..when i was in standard 2
Sore throat: many times
Stitches: nope..
Broken nose: nope..

Do you
Believe in love at first sight: perhaps
Like picnics: yah!!!

Who was the last person
You danced with: never dance before..i missed my prom night.sob sob..
Made you smile: urgh..couldn't recall
You last yelled at: an idiot at the Puduraya~long story


Today did you
Talk to someone you like: nop..
Kissed anyone: yah! kissed mommy
Get sick: a bit..
Talk to an ex: forget it!
Miss someone: yah!!
Eat: obviously yes!breakfast + lunch +dinner


Best feeling in the world
Do you sleep with stuffed animals: nope
What's under your bed: nothing
Who do you really hate: prevaricator ; hypocrite
What time is it now: 11.35pm


Random
Is there a person who is on your mind now: yup! ;)
Do you have any siblings: yup
Do you want children: yah..i do
Do you smile often: may be =)
Do you like your hand-writing: nope..only God can read it!!
Are your toe nails painted: yah..with henna ;)
Whose bed other than yours would you rather sleep in: it is secret!
What color shirt are you wearing now: black
What were you doing at 7:00 p.m. yesterday: watching drama series~Ezora..hoho...
When did you cry last: last week =((
Are you a friendly person: sometimes..hehe
Do you have any pets: nope..
Where is the person you have feelings for right now: err..i don't know
Did you hold hands with the person who mean anything to you now: nope
Do you sleep with the TV on: nope..
What are you doing right now: chatting with a friend..n yah..doing this tagged games
Have you ever crawled through a window:lol..i don't think so
Can you handle the truth: yup for sure..tho it is hard
Are you too forgiving: nop..it's not my nature
Are you closer to your mother or father: both
Who was the last person you cried in front of: can't reveal his name..hehe
How many people can you say you've really loved: lots..can't say the exact numbers
Do you eat healthy: yah!..to be 'awet muda' lol
Do you still have pictures of you & your ex: i burnt it long time ago
Have you ever cried because of something someone said to you: yeah! n i can't forget that moment for my entire life
If you're having a bad day, who are you most likely to go to:my best buddy..
Are you loud or quiet most of the time: loud ;)
Are you confident: sometimes..but most of the times i am not

5 things I was doing 10 years ago
1. study like sh*t for my UPSR exams
2. involving in PBSM (Persatuan Bulan Sabit Merah)
3. an active member of Taekwondo club..holder of blue-red belt
4. a debator..
5. flirting ;)


5 things on my to-do list today
1. set up my crazy phone
2. cleaning my room
3. writing my diary
4. reading OK magazine
5. upload pix


5 snacks I enjoy
1. chocolate..any kind will do
2. ice cream..nyum nyum..
3. secret recipe's cake..gosh!!
4.cheezy wedges
5. potato chips~

5 things I would do if I were a billionaire
1. performing my 'Umrah n Haji' frequently
2. travel around the world
3. shopping
4. build my own foundation of charity
5.invest my money to every industries in the world..

5 of my bad habits
1. bad temper
2. not punctual
3. lazy
4. always curst persons i hate most
5. easily get demotivated or not confident

5 places I have lived in
1. i'm staying in the same place since i was a kid-the nice n peaceful jay bee
2. -
3. -
4. -
5. -

5 jobs I've had
1. did my practical at Zaid Ibrahim & Associates (JB)..
2. -
3. -
4. -
5. -

5 people I tag
~Xu Yan
~edwin
~rishi
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Single & Happy!!

Posted by Shahmi in Happy, Life, Single, Student's Life

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Happiness and the Single Person; Changing Myth Into Reality
By Toni Coleman

Does the expression “single and happy” sound like an oxymoron to you? Are you weary of others (especially other singles) reinforcing the belief that singles cannot be happy? Do you find yourself always planning for the future or putting things off until you “are married and settled? Do you often have a sense that the intense feelings of happiness and joy cannot really be experienced unless you “have someone to share it with?” Do you just feel there is not enough time and other necessary resources available to the single person to pursue experiences that can bring true happiness?

If the above resonates in your gut, do not despair. The following tips will offer ways to help you experience your present reality differently through changing behavior that is based on those negative (false) beliefs. Essentially, these tips will offer advice on how to live a joyful, fulfilling and balanced single life, which will also assist you in achieving a healthy, long- term, intimate relationship.

· Seek self-fulfillment as an individual.

Place emphasis on being truly alive and experiencing the things that bring you true pleasure. Do not let the feelings of peace and wonder slip from your life as you wait to share (beautiful sunsets) and other gifts of life with a future partner.

Do not place your focus on “getting there.” Instead, learn to experience the journey of life. If you can only see the goal of a relationship - marriage, home, children, etc., you will not enjoy the experiences along life’s way.

A good analogy for this is that of a person who bikes and sets (ie), a 40-mile goal for the day. They plan and prepare and off they go. The trip consists of thoughts about getting there, watching for problems in the road ahead, measuring the distance and looking forward to the sense of relief and accomplishment when the goal is met.

What about the sensory experiences missed along the way? This biker will not see the way the sun is reflecting on the river. They will not hear the sounds of the birds and other wildlife in the parallel world around them. The smells of fresh vegetation, moist soil and spring-drenched air will not reach their awareness. It is doubtful their mind will trip and play with thoughts of other (perhaps childhood) days like this.

In other words, they will not be IN the experience, just racing through it, and missing the magic available all around them.

· Do not put off important life decisions while waiting for that special someone.

If your desire is to own your own home, work towards achieving this now. Yes, it may be smaller than if you had a partner to share it with. Your list of must-haves with this first home may be different (as yours alone) than they would be if you were looking for a family. When that time comes, you can make the decision to remain there for a time, or sell/rent out your first place. In the meantime, you will have an investment that you can make into something that meets your needs now for comfortable and secure living. It will add stability and be a wonderful help at tax time.

If you are thinking about making a career change or going back to school for a degree, there is no better time than now.

Yes, this may involve re-working priorities, moving, giving up some income, etc. If this is something you have decided you want for your life, delaying it until you are settled in a relationship may make it impossible to achieve. Make that move now. Do not let this time in your life be placed on hold as you wait for things to happen in your life, instead of working to make them become reality.

· Pamper yourself

Do nice things for yourself now that you have been putting off until…

Go ahead and take that trip to the exotic place you have always wanted to visit. You can return there someday with your special someone.

Make it a habit to set the table for your dinner (for one). Use nice china and candles. Treat yourself as deserving of the things couples routinely provide to themselves as a unit. Ask yourself, am I less deserving because I am single?

Put care and love into how you decorate your home. It does not have to cost a lot of money or become another chore to accomplish this. Make it a comfortable nest and retreat from the world. You and your future mate can decide together what to keep, change or add to.

* Make a plan, not excuses

Make time for the things that matter. Do not let your job or other responsibilities take over your life. Set those priorities. Set limits on work and other functional tasks. We often cite work as our best excuse for not attending to our other needs and wants. This may mean making less money or not moving up as fast in the organization.

Without balance, there will be deficits in the emotional, spiritual, and social and leisure areas of your life. Write down your must haves.

Take time out each day for unwinding and relaxation. Keep a weekly inventory of how you are doing and make adjustments as necessary.

Learn how to productively “waste time”. Turn off the blackberry and TV. Spend time alone with your thoughts. Reflect on your feelings and your life.

This is the season for new beginnings. Let this spring be your time for learning how to be truly happy and at peace within yourself. Immerse your senses in the many joys that the world around you has to offer. Don’t shut out the beauty and happiness that is available to everyone, regardless of their relationship status.

Credit to : http://www.studentnow.com/life/singlehappy.html

Forgiving People

Posted by Shahmi in Forgiving people, Life, people

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FORGIVING PEOPLE

Where do we get the idea that if WE don't forgive people, THEY suffer?
It's nuts!

Let's say:
a) You are my boss and you give me the sack, or
b) You are my girl and you run off with my best friend.

So I say, "I'll NEVER forgive you!"
Who suffers?

NOT YOU!
I get the knot in my stomach.
I lose the sleep.
You are probably out partying!

While I resent you, I SUFFER!
Meanwhile I tell myself, "I'm right!"
But being "RIGHT" doesn't guarantee happiness.

Here's the point ...
To forgive someone, you don't have to AGREE with what they did.
You just have to want your life to work.

You don't forgive people for THEIR benefit.
You do it for YOUR benefit.

So this is your mission for the next 24 hours:

Think of someone that has hurt you.
Just today, practise letting go of all resentment toward them.

Gather all your ANGRY thoughts -
those "I am right and they are wrong" thoughts,
and let them go.

You may like to use your creative imagination ...
.. put all that resentment into an imaginary balloon,
and let it float away.

Throughout the day, repeat the process.
You will feel better.

Forgiving people may be tough, but is possible.
You forgive people for YOUR benefit.
It makes YOU happier.

Best wishes,

Andrew Matthews.

Andrew Matthews is a bestselling author and international corporate speaker. His books are published in 31 languages.

credits to http://jieismail.blogspot.com/

Ah Beng And His Joke

Posted by Shahmi in funny, jokes

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I was just ended my 1st test.Just wanna rest for a while , i found jokes in the forum.

Wanna share coz it is funny...

Enjoys guys


Ah Beng - NEW STUFF
********************

Ah Beng bought a new mobile.
He sent a message to everyone from his Phone Book & said,
"My Mobile No. Has changed.
Earlier it was Nokia 3310. Now it is 6610"

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Ah Beng : I am a Proud, coz my son is in Medical College.
Friend: Really, what is he studying.
Ah Beng: No, he is not studying, they are Studying him.

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Ah Beng : Doctor, in my dreams, I play football every night.
DR: Take this tablet, you will be ok.
Ah Beng : Can I take tomorrow, tonight is final game.

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Ah Beng : If I die, will u remarry?
Wife: No! I'll stay with my sister. But if I die will u remarry?
Ah Beng : No, I'll also stay with your sister.

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Ah Beng : People consider me as a "GOD"
Wife: How do you know??
Ah Beng : When I went to the Park today, everybody said,
Oh GOD! U have come again.

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Ah Beng complained to the police: "Sir, all items are missing,
except the TV in my house."
Police: "How the thief did not take TV?"
Ah Beng : "I was watching TV news..."

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Ah Beng comes back 2 his car & find a note saying "Parking Fine"
He Writes a note and sticks it to a pole "Thanks for complement."

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How do you recognize Ah Beng in School?
He is the one who erases the notes from the book when the teacher erases
the board.

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Once Ah Beng was walking he had a glove on one hand and not on other.
So the man asked him why he did so. He replied that the weather forecast
announced that on one hand it would be cold and on the other hand it would
be hot.

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Ah Beng in a bar and his cellular phone rings. He picks it up and
Says "Hello, how did you know I was here?"

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Ah Beng : Why are all these people running?
Man - This is a race, the winner will get the cup
Ah Beng - If only the winner will get the cup, why others running?

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Teacher: "I killed a person" convert this sentence into future tense
Ah Beng : The future tense is "u will go to jail"

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Ah Beng told his servant: "Go and water the plants!"
Servant: "It's already raining."
Ah Beng : "So what? Take an umbrella and go."

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A man asked Ah Beng why Ahmad Badawi goes walking in the Evening and not
in the morning Ah Beng replied Ahmad Badawi is PM not AM


credit to : SoulKnight

::She Walks In Beauty::

Posted by Shahmi in beauty, poem, She Walks In Beauty

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Salam and hye everyone.

Whew...too busy lately last week and this week.Everything need to be settle in short time and it was like "Do i have to do this things?"

Well ,using an ample of time , just fill this free time , update the blog. Currently it is like poem matters.I'm being an literature person.

This poem i took during my journey to KL from Serdang inside STAR LRT. This poem is put at the advertisement slot inside the LRT.So , waiting for my next destination ,why don't i save this poem and keep it for future reference.
I use my hp and save it in message folder.Quite hard to save all of it coz the poem is so long and my msg space is limited.I had to delete certain msg in my hp to be able save the poem.

Then,this is the result.Enjoy again this poem.

Dedicated to the beauty of Girls outside there... (^_^)



SHE WALKS IN BEAUTY

She walks in beauty,
like the night,
of cloudless climes and starry skies;
and all that's best of dark and bright
meet in her aspect and her ages;
Thus mellowed to that tender light,
Whick heaven to gaudy day deries

One shade the more , one ray the less,
Had half impaired the nameless grace
which waves in every raxon tress,
where thoughts serenely sweet express,
How pure , how dear their dwelling-place

And on that cheek , and o'er that brow,
So soft , so calm , yet elopuent,
The smiles that win , the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent

::StarZ Of Your Life::

Posted by Shahmi in Life, poem, Stars, starz of your life

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Just share a poem that i took from a website which i didn't remember. It was a long time ago....

I like this poem very much because it have lots of moral value of life.
It will show how the life is going on....we feel it and we see it by our own eyes.
Someday probably.....




"Stars are made for wishing on"
My very best friend told me
So I gazed upon an October night's sky
And I picked the brightest star I could see

I named my star Karen
A very special name
Now that this star had a title
She was all mine to claim

I thought about what I wanted
Something that I could wish for
But as I thought about my wish I realized
Into this process should go much more

Karen should know my thoughts
Behind each and every wish
So before I made my wish that night
I told to Karen this

I could wish for money
Because my family is very poor
However to be rich, money is not a necessity
A person needs so very much more

I could wish for that special "GuRL" to like me
And say those three little precious words
But love is a much more sacred link
That comes on a path with thousands of curves

I could wish to be famous
To be someone other than myself
But self worth is measured by much more than
Having the most trophies on your shelf

Instead I want to be rich in spirit
Sound in soul and mind
I wish that when I see the pot at the end of the rainbow
Character is what I will find

Instead I wish for understanding
And courage in matters of love
I pray I'll meet the special someone
And through tough times we will rise above

Most of all I wish for the ability to know and like
Who I am and what I have become to be
And I ask that you help me realize
That I am special even if that's not what I always see

I thanked Karen for listening to
My wishes and my dreams
And there she is shinning bright
No matter how dark it seems

Karen listens to all I say
Even though she live in a world so far
But no matter where either of us end up living
She will always be my wishing star